Me vs. Majority

Most people have trouble saying no. I have trouble saying yes. Meaning I don't get anything from anything, or at least not all that an opportunity has to offer. I usually say no because I either [think] I don't care or because I'm scared. I'm wayyyyy cautious. Yet when people offer me things like gifts, I usually say yes. That is just my greed arising. Yet, it depends on the person and the situation, and what they have. If they don't have money, only enough to pay for electricity, then there's no way in hell I'd ask for anything. I don't even think they would offer anything. And if they don't have money, I just feel plain guilty. I was thinking back to first semester of high school. I had a shot at love. I said no and made a tiny question into an interview for this one guy. I suck. And he was a senior. That would've gotten me "points". And now I sound like someone from a magazine and that's not good, haha. Gah, why didn't I just say yes.